I was contacted a few months ago by a very special person inquiring about assisting with an engagement. That special person was my soon to be step-dad. I decided I would write about one of the most special engagements I've been able to be apart of...... my moms! 

My mom grew up in a home where the norm was to have airplanes in various states of repair adorning the front yard. Her father Robert, founded Columbia Airmotive in 1946; a small family business specializing in war surplus and vintage aircraft parts. My mom and grandpa had a very close relationship..... she was defiantly a "daddy's girl". His pet name for her was simply "Babe".  

A 2,000 sq ft. warehouse chocked full of airplane parts top to bottom was right outside her family's front door. My grandpa (who passed away several years ago) was employed by Boeing during WWII as a field engineer to support the B-17 Bombers based in England. After the war, Columbia Airmotive quickly became a major supply source of surplus B-17 aircraft parts. Airplanes were just part of my moms upbringing... something that has always remained dear and close to her heart. 

My mom then met Caleb. A man with a vast aviation background, and a business that specialized in advanced jet pilot training. You could say they were a match made in heaven! They immediately hit it off! After 5 years of dating, Caleb reached out to me to help him pop the question to my mom and to help pull off a beautiful surprise engagement dinner. 

My mom always said that her father would have loved to have met Caleb and definitely would have approved of him. Caleb understood how important my mom's father was to her and decided to incorporate my grandpa and aviation for the proposal. After planning for months, Caleb found one of the few flying B-17's was coming to San Diego on a national tour. Having worked out details with the crew, shortly after takeoff the pilot handed my mom an old black and white war era photo of her dad standing next to a B-17. A caption above his head in the photo said: "Just say YES babe!" There was Caleb, sitting next to her, ring in hand, asking for her hand in marriage. You could say it was pretty picture perfect! 

After many tears, hugs, and an incredible flight home, she was then surprised with a private dinner at one of their favorite restaurants accompanied by the family! Two families became one that day and I gained an incredible step-dad. Congratulations to my mom and Caleb! I love you both dearly! Thank you for allowing me to be apart of such a special day! 

Photo credit: Courtney Buffet Photography

The Fire Garden is a venue owned by a local resident of Bonsall, CA. Tony, the owner/creator of this majestic spot decided to take his property and love for art and turn it into a huge canvas.  Tony started metalwork for a local fabrication shop, when his welding skills emerged into an artistic form. Tony started to create whimsical garden art from scraps of machines and other items. After the purchase of his property, little did he know that this would set the stage for the next phase of his career. 

After clearing, grading and adding his personal touch..... The Fire Garden was created. Chandeliers hanging from trees are lit on fire, metal work of all shapes and sizes are present throughout the venue... most everything containing open flame. If you are looking for the "out of the box" venue, this is the venue for you! With acres of open roaming space, and metal features on fire around every turn... this venue will have your guests talking! 

I also love that this venue is private. Tony will only book one wedding per weekend. This allows your wedding vendors plenty of time for delivery and pickup. Be sure to check out this at www.thefiregarden.com 

Photography credit: Third Strand Photography 

There have been so many events I have worked where the bride & groom have decided to hire a "friend" to help out! Yes, they might have given you a better price on their services, but was their service up to par? The reason I bring this up is because most of the time the fall short on their end. 

I recently worked a wedding where the caterer was a friend of the bride & groom. The caterer gave them an incredible deal on their services...... who wouldn't pass up a bargain when feeding 150+ guests? Things add up very quickly when planning a wedding, so I understand the reason for finding a deal. However, from the get go the caterer was very unprofessional, lacked staff members and did a poor job of holding up their end. 

I found myself bussing tables, cleaning up around the venue, pushing in chairs, and even had to assist cutting/serving their 4 tier wedding cake! As a cooridnator, my job is to make sure things run smoothly. This has not been the first time that I had to put on yet another hat to make sure my bride & grooms night went perfect!

My advice to anyone planning their wedding, is to do your research! If you have a friend that just got ordained and you want them to marry you.......make sure they practice reading. If your friend is an upcoming DJ, make sure he's gonna be there all night and not be at the bar drinking with friends. This day is such a special day, hiring friends with lack of experience can make or break a wedding!  

Being a wedding planner, I meet a lot of different people. People that I form an instant connection with, and others that look at me as just their planner. One bride in particular really has stood out to me lately, and I wanted to take a minute to write about her. 

I met Larissa form Thumbtack.com. A current platform that has opened many doors for me and my business. I met Larissa 6 months prior to her wedding to discuss day of wedding coordination. Immediately there was a connection. I felt as if I had known Larissa my entire life. Conversation flowed and we saw eye to eye on pretty much everything. It was like we were meant to meet! 

Throughout assisting Larissa, her and I would text back and forth like any friends would do. I caught myself talking to her about other things besides her wedding and because of that her and I had an incredible bride/wedding planner relationship. A relationship that has grown into a friendship. 

I am so blessed to have met her, and will forever hold a place for her in my heart! Thank you Larissa for being an amazing person inside and out!

One of the best parts of being a wedding coordinator, is the relationships I build a long the way. The people I meet. The stories I hear. Nothing is more rewarding than meeting new clients and forming a relationship that goes way beyond the norm. 

As a wedding planner, I keep my personal life very private from my clients. Many of them would be shocked to know just exactly what I do on the other side of planning their wedding. 

Truth be told.... I am a fitness competitor at a National Level. When I'm not planning weddings, I am at gym lifting weights and staying fit.

3 years ago I was extremely unhappy with my body. I hated the way I looked. There wasn't a day I would leave the house without wearing Spanx under my clothes. I ate unhealthy and was in a long term relationship that got too comfortable. My husband and I decided to make a change. We decided to take on a cut throat diet that consisted of protein, veggies and clean carbs. No dressings, no soda, no nothing. The diet was a total of 12 weeks. I learned to weigh my food, and be more conscientious of what I put in my mouth. My husband and I would also work out together and push one another throughout the entire process. At the end of our 12 week diet, my husband lost a total of 35 pounds and I lost 25 pounds. I was so proud of myself. I always blamed myself for being a "big girl" and that I just couldn't lose weight. The only person I was fooling was myself! I never thought I was capable of losing the weight and keeping it off! 

3 years later, I am a figure competitor of the NPC ( National Physic Committee ). I eat, breathe and sleep training & clean eating. I make no excuses anymore. I pack my lunches and bring them everywhere with me. I drink a gallon of water per day. If i eat-out, I am cautious as to what I put in my mouth. I indulge, but not over indulge. Everything about my life has changed and it all started with a cautious decision to want to make a change. 

Coming full circle, one client took interest in my life outside of helping her plan her wedding. She sent me flowers for an upcoming fitness competition I was a part of. She has followed my training, and journey through preparation for this particular fitness event. I was absolutely blown away by her thoughtfulness!

My clients are not just a client. They are people I build relationships with. People that end up being my friend even after their wedding/event is all said and done. Thank you, Larissa, for thinking of me! It truly meant the world to me!

A bridal showcase is an event jammed packed of a variety of vendors (photographers, videographers, florist etc). The point of these bridal shows is to lure in newly engaged couples looking to pick their vendors. Each vendor sets up a booth to showcase their business and talent. I recently attended my first showcase and while I felt my booth was awesome, the show itself was not! 

Not only is a showcase extremely overwhelming for a newly engaged couple..... it's not very personable. As a planner, I take the time to meet with each couple to understand their vision and to learn about who they are and what they like. A showcase is a 5 minute sales pitch about why you should book my services. For me, this is not how I like to do business. While the showcase was a beautiful event and I met a lot of great new contacts and vendors... I would not waste the time and energy to participate in one again. Another learning experience checked off my list!

Advice for both vendors and potential clients; a bridal show is too overwhelming, and not the place you want to "book" your vendor. If you are already confused about wedding decor, ideas, etc.....  these shows will make you question every idea you already pinned to your Pinterest board. Take the time to research vendors, listen to those who refer you, and read Yelp reviews. 

If I made a dollar every time I heard a bride say "Our venue comes with a coordinator," I would be rich! Many brides don't understand the difference between the two ..... I mean why would they? They sound like the same thing to me! When in reality, there is a HUGE difference. Below will explain why every bride should hire a Wedding Coordinator regardless if their venue provides one for them!

What most brides don’t quite understand is that the venue coordinator is just there for the VENUE, not you. (Nothing against venue coordinators- I love them and have made great relationships with many.) If they tell you they can handle things on the day of your wedding, it’s true- they can, but it’s only within a certain scope. 
A venue coordinator is looking out for the best interest of the venue. A wedding coordinator looks out for the best interest of YOU, the bride. The venue coordinator deals with everything having to do with the venue- food, setup and logistics. A wedding coordinator will deal with aspects of the venue, such as setup, and will make sure everything is to your specifications.

A wedding coordinator stays by your side throughout the day and night. They are there to tell you when things will be occurring throughout the night, such as the cake cutting, bouquet toss, toasts, etc. Every wedding I am apart of,  I stay until the very end of the wedding, until all of the guests are gone. A venue coordinator stays until the meal is served, and the majority of the time, leaves after. Some may stay until the cake is cut and served. He or she will not be by your side throughout the day or night. Although the venue coordinator will do their best to keep you happy, he or she likely will not be involved if your bustle breaks, when it comes time to load up your gifts, or tracking down your bridesmaids favorite lipgloss.

Venues are known to have a high turnover rate among the coordinator/sales positions. The person that you book your wedding with may or may not still be there when it comes time for your wedding a year, year and a half later. Your wedding coordinator is hired by YOU, hand selected by YOU, and won’t be going anywhere (unless, God forbid, something horrible happens!). The wedding coordinator is there for your best interest from start to finish! 

I've been slowly re-vamping my home decor. Selling pieces of furniture that I once was into. For anyone who knows me, they know I love my glam. My home style is a mixture of Living Spaces meets Zgallerie. My living room is full of mercury glass candles, textured pillows, ghost chairs, faux fur and a color pallet of grays, whites and creams. I love mixing colors, textures and prints. 

I've been wanting to make coasters for my coffee table.. but had a hard time spending $50.00. So, I decided to create them myself. Read below on how to make your own coasters! 

These could also be used as place cards or fun table numbers for any wedding or event!

I purchased these at American Imports in San Diego. They cost me $15.00 total. They have a variety of colors ranging from pink, purple, to natural. 

What you'll need: paint brushes, Rub'n Buff foil paint, and felt pads. I purchased all this for $8.00 (with coupon) from Hobby Lobby. The paints come in all different metallic shades (gold, copper and silver). 

Start painting the edges of the rock all the way around. Make sure to pick a side that will be faced down to stick felt bottoms on. 

Once paint is dry, stick felt bottoms on the underside of your coaster to prevent scratching and surfaces. 

Pop open a bottle of your favorite wine and enjoy! Total cost for this project was $23.00.